This needs to be said more often. Many people, even in the LGBT community, don’t get the distinction.

No, I don’t think “hasbian” is cruel. It’s smart-alecky in jargon that is familiar to LGBT readers. It isn’t anti- anything. It describes a woman who once defined herself as a lesbian and now doesn’t. When you look it up in the dictionary, you’ll find Anne Heche, among others.

“Hasbian” doesn’t describe a gender binary any more than “dyke” does. You’re spouting rhetoric and confusing a couple of different things.
Gender, binary or not, is not synonymous with sexual orientation. The two paths are mutually exclusive – although they may intersect at times – and this post had absolutely nothing to do with gender. (Although I think being born biologically female is still a requirement of being a Playboy Bunny. However, I may be wrong.)

At one point, while a Playboy Bunny, she came out as lesbian – a move that might, arguably, have been career-boosting – and is now marrying a man, and leaving her lesbian identity behind her. She says, rather defensively, concerning her past, that she has “no regrets for anything”.

To try to paint this as bi- or trans-phobic, or anti- any gender identity is sort of lame.

When I wrote the headline, I was intending to be a smart-ass, which is the nature of Geek Porn Girl. After all, it says right at the top of the screen, “If you want appropriate, go somewhere else.”