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Gay Wedding Bells Ring in Vermont

Same-sex couples are now able to marry in Vermont (as of 9/1/09), but don’t expect a tidal wave of weddings, officials say.

“It’s not a weekend, it’s not a holiday,” say Willie Docto, who heads the Vermont Gay Tourism Association. “There are practical reasons why people aren’t getting married on September 1st. I think expectations are too high for that one day.’

The Associated Press surveyed several town clerks and found only a handful of licenses have been issued for gay marriages in the month of September, nothing like the rush seen around civil unions in 2000. But gay marriage advocates say there’s an easy explanation for this.

Greg Trulson, a Duxbury Justice of the Peace who says he is preparing to perform several same-sex marriages, said, “What I have found, that a lot of the gay marriages that I’m officiating starting September first are other civil unions that I have officiated in the past. And they’re coming back to get married. What we’re finding is they’re coming back on the day of their civil union, to keep the same day [as their wedding anniversary].”

Vermont Public Radio reports many couples are planning small, low-key ceremonies: “Some say they’ve already had several celebrations of their relationship over the years and don’t plan a big wedding.”

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Mary Cheney Donates to Homophobe

Mary Cheney, the daughter of former Vice President Dick Cheney and onetime gay outreach director for Coors Brewing Company, gave $1,000 to a Republican Senate hopeful who voted against same-sex marriage and allowing gay couples to adopt children in the District of Columbia.

Cheney, 40, has a two-year old son with her partner of 17 years, Heather Poe.

Read more on The Raw Story.

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Two Female Monkeys Make Babies

070824-monkey-babytalk_bigScientists in Oregon have produced four monkeys using the genetic material of two females. This breakthrough could lead to the same technique being performed using human genetic material.

Researchers from the Oregon Health & Science University replaced most of the genes of one rhesus macaque monkey with genes from another, according to The Washington Post. They then implanted embryos (fertilized with sperm), into the uterus of another monkey, who gave birth to four healthy offspring.

The experiment is a step toward helping humans prevent genetic deformities in their offspring. Defects in mitochondrial DNA can produce disorders including seizures, diabetes, and Alzheimer’s, Parkinson’s, and Huntington’s diseases. Mitochondrial DNA is inherited from the female parent. Swapping out mitochondrial DNA, allows the defective genes to be replaced.

The end result is offspring with two genetic mothers and a genetic father, which raises social and ethical concerns.

(Although probably more in the scientific and straight communities than in the LGBT world, where we’re already used to complicated families.)

More worrisome, according to the article, the procedure could tamper with the “germline,” permanently altering genes for future generations.

If you’ve followed any of the science reporting in recent years about mitochondrial genetic tracing, you’ll understand this concern. Research has revealed one woman “Mitochondrial Eve,” to be the most recent common ancestor for all currently living human beings. The business about the snake and the apple is still unclear, however.

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So Many Powerful Words

We heard so many powerful words spoken during the Butch Voices conference.

I thought I would share these with you.

Keynote speaker Jeanne Cordova gave a keynote address “Keeping Our Feminism, While Exploring our Masculinities”.

A self-described “classic butch,” (that’s “classic” as in “classic coke,” not coke-light, or no-caffeine, or coke-zero – make no mistake) Cordova is an activist, social pioneer, and writer. She is the author of  Sexism: It’s A Nasty Affair! A collection of columns printed in the Los Angeles Free Press (New World Enterprises, 1976); Kicking the Habit – A Lesbian Nun Story (Multiple Dimensions,1990), and the forthcoming  When We Were Outlaws: In Love & Revolution, memoir from a political activist. Her work has also appeared in numerous anthologies and publications.

She spoke about what it has meant to her to be butch and how that identity has meshed with feminism:

So I want to appeal to my fellow butches to take “this feminism thing” seriously. I want to appeal to you in the most basic, crude and self-centered way. By telling you – if you ever plan on keeping a woman past the hot-sex days of the first year of your relationship, if you ever plan on getting married, if you want a femme to stay with you, if you ever want to have a happy, long-term relationship with a woman today – you’d better learn your feminism!

You can read the rest of Cordova’s keynote address on her website.

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Sunday at the conference featured a Spoken Word Brunch featuring poets and authors, and other spoken word artists reading their work. I think I speak for everyone in the room when I say the performances rocked us to the roots of our souls.

Hosted by author and comic Kelli Dunham, the brunch was a mixture of young and old, the political and the erotic, the folksy and the oratory. We heard poetry and an a’cappella song by Shams Cohen, a full-time grad student preparing for Unitarian Universalist ministry; a story by author Elana Dykewomon, and a hot story celebrating a queer femme sex worker by Jeff Stroker.

Canadian author Ivan Coyote read an essay about packing in front of her mom and brought the room to tears with a not-so-simple story about a simple haircut. On Saturday night at the Butch Nation performance event, Ivan shared words from these two essays: A Butch Roadmap and Hats Off to Beautiful Femmes.

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Lex, a young transgender activist and spoken word artist brought the house down with three dynamic and intense pieces. If you visit Lex’s MySpace page, you can hear at least two of these pieces, “Intention,” and  “Dearly Beloved,” a poem about California’s recent struggle with Proposition 8, which had the audience hooting and cheering with these lines:

For what God has joined together

Let no man put asunder

With the power invested in me

by God herself and the state

of courageous hearts and unshattered commitments

I now pronounce you sacred

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Belinda Carroll is a Texas-based comic, and an outspoken femme. She took a serious turn and shared her poem, “An Ode to the Masculine”:

At night I dream about a person of ambiguous gender,

aggressive as well as gentle.

A person that gets my love of shoes but won’t take any of my shit.

A person that is tough, steadfast, and quick,

can admit when they are wrong, but mostly when I am right.

Has a soft shoulder for me at night.

Someone who fights, wrestles, and screams

for a place in the world, and to be seen

as a person loving, whole –

not to be seen as other,

but as a soul.

It’s not, are you he?

Or, are you her?

Or what?

because it really matters not.

As long as you are in full body contact with

your humanity,

you are free to be

with me.

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Many of these artists have books, essays, and poems in publications as well as FaceBook and/or MySpace pages, websites, and Twitter accounts and you should get to know their work!

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Barbie With Balls

This “Barbie Foot” foosball game is being displayed and sold at Colette, a boutique in Paris, in celebration of Barbie’s 50th anniversary.

It was designed by Chloé Ruchon, and produced by Bonzini, a high end foosball retailer in conjunction with the Mattel toy company. It can grace your den or dyke bar for a reported 10,000 Euro.

Rows of Barbie characters kicking at each other? Tell me this doesn’t look like The L Word.

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Dissent Marks Possible California Gay Marriage Push

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A straw poll of same sex marriage proponents gathered in San Bernardino over the weekend indicated the majority want to return to the ballot in 2010 to try to overturn Proposition 8.

Final count of the nonbinding measure: 93 people voted to go in 2010, 49 in 2012 and 20 undecided.

However, the movement still remains largely unorganized. It doesn’t have a leader or official decision making process.

And it definitely has dissenters.

Some critics would argue that this sort of loose structure resulted in the divisive herd of organizations that paddled upstream against Proposition 8 in the last election.

Leaders that participated in the poll will return to their organizations and then a final decision will be made in a couple of weeks.

However, if they’re going to go place it on the ballot in 2010, they’d better hurry. Ballot language is due to the Attorney General by Sept. 25. And needless to say, careful wording is everything.

Today’s New York Times features a story on how there is dissent in California’s marriage equality movement:

But the timing of another campaign has since been questioned by several of the movement’s big donors, including David Bohnett, a millionaire philanthropist and technology entrepreneur who gave more than $1 million to the unsuccessful campaign to defeat Proposition 8.

“In conversations with a number of my fellow major No on 8 donors,” Mr. Bohnett said in an e-mail message, “I find that they share my sentiment: namely, that we will step up to the plate — with resources and talent — when the time is right.”

“The only thing worse than losing in 2008,” he added, “would be to lose again in 2010.”

Read the entire story here.

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Maddow Back When…

Knowing how much my visitors adore Rachel Maddow – Indeed, posts about her remain some of the most often read on this blog – I’m pointing you toward spoken word poet Alix Olson’s interview with Dr. Maddow in the online magazine Velvet Park, which sports the tagline “Dyke culture in bloom”.

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“Other” Motherhood Begins at Birth in DC

Children born through artificial insemination can now legally have two female parents at birth in Washington, D.C., thanks to a new law.

The new law negates the need for the female partner of the birth mother to go through a complicated adoption process to legally become the child’s “other mother”.

American University law professor Nancy Polikoff, who helped draft the District of Columbia’s Domestic Partnership Judicial Determination Parentage Act of 2009, noted that when a heterosexual married couple uses artificial insemination, the husband does not have to adopt the child.

“He is the child’s legal parent automatically. Now the child of a lesbian couple will have the same economic and emotional security,” Polikoff told The Washington Post. “A mother should not have to adopt her own child.”

The law is the first of its kind in the country. A similar law goes into effect in January 2010 in New Mexico.

By law, Congress is charged with oversight of the laws of the District of Columbia, and many people feel recent decisions are a litmus indicator of Congressional  attitude toward LGBT rights.

Earlier this month, with Congressional approval, the district began recognizing same-sex marriages performed in other states and countries.

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Julianne Moore and Annette Bening as Lesbian Moms

julianne-mooreannette_benningVariety is reporting a sizzling hot female duo, in the form of Julianne Moore and Annette Bening, has just started working on a new movie in which they play lesbian moms.

The movie, The Kids Are All Right, is about what happens when the couple’s teenage children, played by Josh Hutcherson and Mia Wasikowska, go looking for their biological father, a sperm donor played by Mark Ruffalo. The story is about the challenges that ensue as he enters their family life.

The movie is directed by Lisa Cholodenko, who previously directed High Art.

(Note to Ms. Cholodenko: Oh please, oh please include sex scenes!)

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Foe-bama? Gays are Wondering

stonewallIn view of the Justice Department’s brief on the Defense of Marriage Act – a law President Obama said he regarded as “abhorrent” when he was campaigning and sweeping up gay dollars – this cartoon in the Washington Blade seems just right.

An editorial in today’s New York Times names the brief “A bad call on gay rights” and suggest the White House take a new direction:

The Obama administration, which came to office promising to protect gay rights but so far has not done much, actually struck a blow for the other side last week. It submitted a disturbing brief in support of the Defense of Marriage Act, which is the law that protects the right of states to not recognize same-sex marriages and denies same-sex married couples federal benefits. The administration needs a new direction on gay rights.

A gay couple married under California law is challenging the act in federal court. In its brief, the Justice Department argues that the couple lack legal standing to do so. It goes on to contend that even if they have standing, the case should be dismissed on the merits.

The brief insists it is reasonable for states to favor heterosexual marriages because they are the “traditional and universally recognized form of marriage.” In arguing that other states do not have to recognize same-sex marriages under the Constitution’s “full faith and credit” clause, the Justice Department cites decades-old cases ruling that states do not have to recognize marriages between cousins or an uncle and a niece.

These are comparisons that understandably rankle many gay people. In a letter to President Obama on Monday, Joe Solmonese, president of the Human Rights Campaign, a gay rights organization, said, “I cannot overstate the pain that we feel as human beings and as families when we read an argument, presented in federal court, implying that our own marriages have no more constitutional standing than incestuous ones.”

The brief also maintains that the Defense of Marriage Act represents a “cautious policy of federal neutrality” — an odd assertion since the law clearly discriminates against gay couples. Under the act, same-sex married couples who pay their taxes are ineligible for the sort of federal benefits — such as Social Security survivors’ payments and joint tax returns — that heterosexual married couples receive.

In the presidential campaign, President Obama declared that he would work to overturn the Defense of Marriage Act. Now, the administration appears to be defending it out of a sense of obligation to support a validly enacted Congressional law. There is a strong presumption that the Justice Department will defend federal laws, but it is not an inviolable rule.

If the administration does feel compelled to defend the act, it should do so in a less hurtful way. It could have crafted its legal arguments in general terms, as a simple description of where it believes the law now stands. There was no need to resort to specious arguments and inflammatory language to impugn same-sex marriage as an institution.

The best approach of all would have been to make clear, even as it defends the law in court, that it is fighting for gay rights. It should work to repeal “don’t ask, don’t tell,” the law that bans gay men and lesbians in the military from being open about their sexuality. It should push hard for a federal law banning employment discrimination. It should also work to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act in Congress.

The administration has had its hands full with the financial crisis, health care, Guantánamo Bay and other pressing matters. In times like these, issues like repealing the marriage act can seem like a distraction — or a political liability. But busy calendars and political expediency are no excuse for making one group of Americans wait any longer for equal rights.

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Sexiest Voice Speaks Up For Gay Rights

The speaker at the Human Rights Campaign‘s recent New Orleans dinner was Patricia Clarkson, the Emmy-winning and Academy Award–nominated star of Elegy, the forthcoming Woody Allen film Whatever Works, and two of my favorite films, Pieces of April and The Station Agent. And, she is, I have to say, possessor of what may be the sexiest voice on the planet.

Clarkson, who delivered the keynote speech, is a New Orleans native. She opened her address by quoting playwright Tennessee Williams. “After all,” she said. “This is New Orleans and I did play Blanche Dubois.”

These are, she said, Williams words, and are inscribed on his gravestone:

The violets in the mountains have broken the rocks.

She repeated the line again before continuing. The meaning she said, is clear to her:

The hard, the cold, the oppressive will, at long last, be broken apart by a force that is beautiful, natural, colorful, and alive.

Clarkson continued by speaking out about the injustices and lack of legal rights for gay couples, including the U.S. military’s “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy (DADT).

“The rocks are breaking, and it’s time to call certain people out on the hypocrisy of their stance on gay marriage,” Clarkson said, before encouraging political activism as a way to combat opponents of gay rights.

Unfortunately, I couldn’t be in New Orleans to hear Clarkson live, but HRC has furnished this video so we can all listen (and swoon).

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Court Upholds Prop 8, Advocacy Groups Vow to Restore Marriage Equality

This is the official press release from the National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR):

(San Francisco, CA, May 26, 2009)—Today, in a 6 to 1 decision, the California Supreme Court upheld Proposition 8, the ballot measure that eliminated the right of same sex couples to marry. In the ruling authored by Chief Justice Ronald George, the Court stated “We emphasize only that among the various constitutional protections recognized in the Marriage Cases as available to same-sex couples, it is only the designation of marriage — albeit significant — that has been removed by this initiative measure.” At the same time, the court unanimously ruled that the more than 18,000 marriages that took place between June 16 and November 4, 2008 continue to be fully valid and recognized by the state of California. The decision reaffirmed the Court’s prior holding that sexual orientation is subject to the highest level of protection under the California Constitution.

In a strongly worded dissent, Justice Carlos Moreno stated,

“The rule the majority crafts today not only allows same-sex couples to be stripped of the right to marry that this court recognized in the Marriage Cases, it places at risk the state constitutional rights of all disfavored minorities. It weakens the status of our state Constitution as a bulwark of fundamental rights for minorities protected from the will of the majority.”

“Today’s decision is a terrible blow to same-sex couples who share the same hopes and dreams for their families as other Californians,” said Shannon Minter, Legal Director for the National Center for Lesbian Rights, who argued the case before the California Supreme Court in March. “But our path ahead is now clear. We will go back to the ballot box and we will win.”

The National Center for Lesbian Rights, Lambda Legal, and the ACLU represent Equality California, whose members include many same-sex couples who married between June 16 and November 4, 2008, and six same-sex couples. David C. Codell and Munger, Tolles & Olson LLP, and Orrick, Herrington & Sutcliffe LLP are also counsel on the case.

At a press conference this morning, all of the groups vowed to return to the polls to restore the right to marry for same-sex couples.

Elizabeth Gill, a staff attorney with the ACLU of Northern California, said,

“Same-sex couples yearn for the same dignity and respect that others enjoy. The current situation in California is fundamentally unfair, and it is deeply disappointing that the Court let this injustice stand. But we are committed to restoring equality at the ballot box.”

The National Center for Lesbian Rights, Lambda Legal, and the ACLU filed the legal challenge on November 5, after Proposition 8 was approved by just 52 percent of the voters on Election Day.

An unprecedented 43 friend-of-the-court briefs, representing hundreds of religious organizations, civil rights groups, and labor unions, and numerous California municipal governments, bar associations, and leading legal scholars, were filed in the case, urging the Court to strike down the initiative.

“Public opinion is moving in the direction of fairness and equality, and it is only a matter of time until the freedom to marry will again be secure for all Californians.” – Jennifer C. Pizer

Pizer is the Marriage Project Director for Lambda Legal. “Achieving equality always requires struggle, but over time people come to accept that equal treatment and equal protection of the laws is the best way to protect the rights of all,” she said.

“By upholding Prop. 8, the Court has moved our state backward and has put all Californians at risk of losing fundamental rights at each and every election. Our Constitution must ensure that all Californians are treated equally by our government,” said Geoff Kors, Executive Director of Equality California. “Despite this injustice, we are prepared to return to the ballot box together with our allies to restore the freedom to marry. As more and more states across the nation allow same-sex couples to marry, and as we continue our efforts to win the hearts and minds of Californians through real conversations in homes, in neighborhoods, online and on the air, we are confident that same-sex couples will soon enjoy the honor, dignity and protections that only marriage provides.”

There is more information, including pdfs of the decision and other documents, on the NCLR website.

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Another Prop. H8 Protest Graphic

Swipe it and use it!

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Help Repeal Prop. 8

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Civil Rights Fail

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Marriage Equality Map

Thanks to Joe.My.God for the tip-off on this marriage equality map of the United States from Wikipedia, which has a whole series of maps showing the state of civil unions around the world. Hopefully, I’ll be able to update this map on Tuesday, when California turns purple. Pray for purple!

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Blog Reporting Newsom Asked Court to Delay Prop. 8 Ruling

Towleroad, which bills itself as a blog site “with homosexual tendencies” is reporting that San Francisco Mayor Gavin Newsom asked the court to delay announcing its decision as not to coincide with the 30th anniversary of the White Night riots.

Confidential sources close to San Francisco City Hall told Towleroad’s Corey Johnson that the California Supreme Court was prepared to release its opinion on Proposition 8 tomorrow, but decided to delay the ruling after a call from Mayor Gavin Newsom.

Newsom reached out to the Supreme Court and asked them to hold off releasing their decision so it did not coincide with the White Night riots,” said our source.

Towleroad notes that the source spoke on condition of anonymity and that the blog has been trying to get an on-the-record source for the story.

The White Night riots took place on May 21, 1979 in San Francisco after the annoucement of the lenient sentencing of Dan White for the assassinations of San Francisco Maytor George Moscone and openly gay Supervisor Harvey Milk.

The events leading up to the assassinations are the subject of Gus Van Sant’s movie Milk, starring Sean Penn.

The riots caused thousands of dollars in property damage, and the police made a retaliatory raid on a gay bar in the Castro. Many patrons were severely beaten by cops in riot gear. Arrests were made, lawsuits filed, and the show of strength by the gay community resulted in Mayor Dianne Feinstein appointing a gay-friendly police chief, which eased tensions and lead to the hiring of more gay officers.

Since the movie Milk ended before the verdict, I’ll share this short clip of the White Night riots with you:

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There Will Be Girl Power at the Indy

Anna_ChattenWhen the Indy 500 drivers start their engines on May 24, there will be a woman gearhead in the pits for the first time.

When Venezuelan driver Milka Duno qualified for the 93rd Indianapolis 500, it gave team member Anna Chatten the chance to make 500 history on May 24. Chatten, who works on the No. 23 Dreyer & Reinbold entry’s gearbox, also lifts the car with an air jack during pit stops on race day.

“For me to be able to do it with another female driving, it’s obviously a huge accomplishment for the sport,” Chatten said. “You think about how women didn’t even stand near pit lane 30 years ago.”

Driver Danica Patrick will start in the 10th spot Sunday.

Race historians believe Chatten will be the first female crew member “over the wall” in this race.

This is what Chatten, 29, of Peoria, Ill., has dreamed of since her father brought her to the Indy 500 in 1992. Chatten has worked her way to this spot, spending six years in Champ Car for Walker Racing and working this year in Firestone Indy Lights.

Read more about Chatten here…

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In Times of Tragedy We Have More Similarities Than Differences

One of the issues frequently raised in the great gay marriage debate has to do with the rights and respect accorded husbands and wives in times of tragedy. Members of the LGBT community are familiar with the horror stories about refused visitation and failure to recognize the decision-making powers of a same-sex partner, or even a legal same-sex spouse.

It’s important to keep telling these stories, especially to the greater community, where the majority of people are straight. I believe that the same people who choke on the idea of “Adam and Steve” marriages with the grooms in matching tuxes, may have their hearts softened by the commonality of tragedy. At a certain age, each of us has experienced hospitals, accidents, illness, and loss somewhere in our life, and we understand the uncertainty and emotion these things bring to loved ones, straight or gay.

A Washington woman is suing the hospital that kept her from her dying partner’s bedside. Lamda Legal is representing her. Read the story in the New York Times.

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“Ungodly” Teen Lesbian Wins Award from School Districit in Discrimination Claim

It’s hard to believe this sort of thing can happen in the San Francisco Bay Area. However, I have a butch friend who was asked to change her clothes separately from her college sports team because coaches said she would make the other female athletes uncomfortable, so I know it can happen:

In San Jose, Calif., a lesbian student’s complaint that teachers harassed her over her sexual orientation has led to a school district’s agreement to pay her $25,000 and revamp anti-discrimination policies.

The agreement between the Vallejo City Unified School District and the American Civil Liberties Union was reached without litigation, said ACLU attorney Elizabeth Gill.

In agreeing to the settlement, the district is not admitting liability, Gill and district Superintendent Mary Bull said.

The student, Rochelle Hamilton, now 16, was a sophomore at Jesse Bethel High School in the fall of 2007, when teachers allegedly verbally harassed her and forced her to attend a counseling session for gay students. Gill said the counselor tried to discourage Hamilton and other students in the session from being gay.

The alleged harassment included a staff member telling Hamilton she was “ungodly” and “going to hell” as she embraced her then-girlfriend. The alleged comments transformed the “social butterfly” into a teenager on the verge of suicide, Hamilton’s mother said.

Rochelle Hamilton, who came out as a lesbian when she was 13, said she became depressed because of daily negative comments from teachers and staff about her sexual orientation and her appearance.

Her standard dress is stereotypically male, with baggy jeans.

(Or stereotypically lesbian, I guess it depends on your point of view, right?)

Read the rest of the story in the San Jose Mercury News.

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