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What Do Mormons and Gays Have in Common?

After the Mormon Church-funded debacle that started California’s continuing Prop. 8 battle, you’d think that the Mormon and gay communities would have nothing in common except a passion for unusual underwear.

However, it turns out that neither Mormons nor gays can lead a Boy Scout troop.

In the ironic cycle of hate, a straight, married Mormon couple in North Carolina has been told they can’t be Cub Scout leaders.

According to NPR, a Presbyterian church was happy to have Jeremy and Jodi Stokes as Cub Scout leaders until officials there found out they are Mormons. They were told they would have to step down because the church does not consider them “real Christians”. (Mormons consider themselves to be Christians.)

The Boy Scouts of America requires its members to swear an oath of duty to God.

Christ Covenant Church in Matthews, NC, about 10 miles from Charlotte, has about 2,350 members according to its website. It is part of the Presbyterian Church in America, a conservative Evangelical denomination. Evangelicals have consistently criticized the LDS church.

The LDS Church has consistently criticized gays, among other minority groups.

The Boy Scouts of America has legally discriminated against gays for a decade. In 2000, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that the BSA has a constitutional right to exclude openly gay men from serving as troop leaders.

See how this big jamboree of hate works?

The Boy Scouts discriminate against gays and Mormons.

The Mormons discriminate against gays.

But Mormons and grown-up Boy Scouts are all welcomed into the gay community with open arms.

So, tell me. Who’s looking most Christian now?

There is a great movie about one young man’s battle against discrimination in the Boy Scouts called Scout’s Honor. You really should see it.

I Am Protected… With Some Help From Microsoft

This heart-rending ad, “I Am Protected,” is running in Washington state in support of Referendum 71, which supports more partnership rights for Washington state’s gay couples.

In related news, Microsoft Corp. has donated $100,000 to the campaign in favor of Referendum 71.

That’s the largest single donation in favor of of the referendum. Microsoft is based in Redmond, Washington.

Considering that Alan C. Ashton, a co-founder of WordPerfect, gave $1 million to the campaign supporting 2008′s Proposition 8, the initiative that outlawed same-sex marriage in California, we can surmise that Microsoft’s Word is now the preferred word processing software of  gays and lesbians everywhere.

The “approve” campaign committee, called Washington Families Standing Together, has raised about $780,000 overall, and spent about $200,000. The “reject” campaign, called Protect Marriage Washington, has raised about $60,000, and spent about $35,000.

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Maine Embraces Same-Sex Marriage

UPDATE:  Wahoo, Maine! Governor Baldacci signed this in to law today. Congratulations to our most northeastern state, winters are going to get a lot warmer for part of your population!

The lower house of the Maine state legislature has passed a bill that takes the state a step closer to being the fifth in the nation to allow same-sex marriage.

Maine’s Democratic-controlled House of Representatives voted 89 to 57 to enact the proposal.

The bill now returns to the state Senate, which has previously approved it. If it passes there it will be brought to the governor for his signature.

Governor John Baldacci once opposed gay marriage but in April said he is keeping an open mind on the issue.

Massachusetts, Connecticut and Vermont in the Northeast and Iowa in the Midwest have already legalized gay marriage, and New Hampshire’s state senate last month approved a gay marriage bill. California’s State Supreme Court determined that same-sex marriage was legal in 2008, but a voter initiative largely funded by out of state religious organizations – Proposition 8 – removed that right. The state’s Supreme Court is currently debating the legality of that election.

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Does Bigotry Look Better Topless?

nakedcarrieprejeanYou be the judge.

Miss California USA Carrie Prejean, whose anti-gay-marriage (or pro “opposite-sex”) marriage made her the darling of the religious right, and landed her a spot in a National Organization of Marriage ad, recently got naked for the camera..

According to Wikipedia, Prejean grew up in an evangelical Christian home in Vista, California. She is currently a senior at San Diego Christian College, a small, evangelical liberal arts college in El Cajon, California and attends The Rock Church, where she volunteers with their outreach ministries.

Alicia Jacobs, Entertainment Reporter at KVBC in Las Vegas, has reportedly seen all six of the photos and says some are much more revealing. Jacobs believes the pictures may have been taken after Carrie’s pageant-financed breast augmentation about six weeks ago.

I’d count this as another feather in NOM’s media cap. The thinly-disguised front for the Mormon Church, has pretty much screwed up everything they’ve touched recently. Audition tapes of the actors playing “concerned citizens” in their “The Storm is Coming” ad made Rachel Maddow’s show, and they gave their Two Million for Marriage campaign the “hip” acronym 2M4M, internet cruising slang for two men seeking a third for a good time. Now their spokesmodel is naked on the internet.

I’m thinking they need a new consultant.

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Marriage Equality and The Thomas Crown Affair

Today we can add New Hampshire to the list of places we can all get married: Connecticut, Iowa, and Massachusetts, with Vermont on the way (September 2009).

It looks like Maine will be next, as a bill that would legalize same-sex marriage is headed to a vote in the state house. The legislation moved forward with a vote of 11 to 3, and is looking like it will pass.

Californians are  still awaiting a State Supreme Court decision on the political travesty that was Proposition 8, a voter initiative that was largely driven and funded by out-of-state religious money.

Of course these religious organizations are already using scare tactics to try and spawn legislation in each of these states with the intent of rescinding the rights of same-sex couples to marry.

After all, same-sex marriage was already legal in California when Proposition 8 was placed on the ballot.

However, watching these states fall one-by-one, I get a little giddy.

It’s easier to move a small state than a large state. The more small states that continue to move toward marriage equality, the more the resources of organizations trying to thwart it will be diluted and rendered ineffective.

It feels a lot like the climatic scene in one of my favorite movies, The Thomas Crown Affair (yes, the remake, I confess). The police are set up in a museum in an attempt to capture an art theft suspect. He enters the museum carrying a briefcase, and dons a bowler. They hone in on him. But, suddenly, men appear everywhere dressed like him, all over the museum. There are so many dopplegangers that the police don’t know where to move next. The first time I saw this, I kept hopping up and down, I was so excited. It was brilliant then and it’s  still brilliant now.

I knew there was a reason I loved this movie. But I always thought it was about Rene Russo’s dance scene in that transparent black dress. I didn’t realize it was because of a political strategy.

(But, you didn’t think I could write about the dance scene without posting it, did you?)

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With a Tongue This Slippery, Rick Warren Would Make a Fine Lesbian

Rick Warren, pastor of the Saddleback Church, was at the center of a hornet’s nest of controversy when he was invited to deliver the invocation at President Obama’s inauguration.

LGBT groups howled in protest, because of Warren’s public anti-gay statements. At the center of the controversy was this interview with Steve Waldman, the editor-in-chief of Beliefnet, where Warren expressed his sentiments about gays marrying:

WARREN: The issue to me, I’m not opposed to that [some partnership rights] as much as I’m opposed to redefinition of a 5,000 year definition of marriage. I’m opposed to having a brother and sister being together and calling that marriage. I’m opposed to an older guy marrying a child and calling that marriage. I’m opposed to one guy having multiple wives and calling that marriage.

BELIEFNET: Do you think those are equivalent to gays getting married?

WARREN: Oh , I do. For 5,000 years, marriage has been defined by every single culture and every single religion – this is not a Christian issue. Buddhist, Muslims, Jews – historically, marriage is a man and a woman.

Of course, no one in the LGBT community appreciated being likened to pedophiles, bigamists, or people committing incest, which wasn’t just an interpretation of what he said, it’s what he said.

Now, in an interview with Christianity Today, Warren talks about the backlash against his invitation to participate in the inauguration, and slips and slides around, parsing his language. Here’s his take on the interview exchange above:

In a Beliefnet interview, which was an hour long, Steve Waldman asked me about gay marriage. I said I believe marriage, that term, should be reserved for a man and a woman. I’m not saying same-sex couples don’t love each other. I gave some examples of what I think shouldn’t be considered to be marriage, like an older guy with a younger woman. Then [Waldman] said, “Are you saying that those are the same thing?” I said, “Oh sure.” It made it sound like I was equating homosexuality with pedophilia and incest. I don’t believe it, never have, and never would.

And just to futher confuse things, here’s Warren on Larry King Live a couple of nights ago, claiming he’s not against gay marriage:

However, just before the election, he made this video for his congregation, endorsing Proposition 8:

(Side note to Rick – next time, sit farther away from the camera, please.)

Will the real Rick Warren please stand up?

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Are Zoos Getting Gayer?

Sometimes the stuff in my inbox makes me shake my head in disbelief.

The Philadephia Zoo is having a Gay Community Day. This is apparently the first time the zoo has invited the LGBT community in its gates. Up until now, gays and lesbians have been sneaking in, dressed like straight people.

Sometime they’re even disguised as parents with children.

The zoo says the event, which will run from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. April 18, will provide a safe and welcoming environment for LGBT and ally individuals to experience the multitude of offerings at the nation’s oldest zoo.

I have to say, it’s going to be really neat for LGBT people to see wild animals through the bars like everybody else has been able to do all these 150 years.

I was just relieve to find out that “Gay Day at the Zoo” wasn’t another huge backward step in our civil rights. I was afraid the Mormon Church had banded with the Catholic Church to co-sponsor an initiative in Pennsylvania that would allow gays to be locked up annually and put on display for the God-fearing public to view.

I guess this follows the “Gay Day” at Disneyland trend, an marketing attempt to pull in those lucrative rainbow-colored dollars usually spent in gay and lesbian bars, on Olivia Cruises, at Village People reunion concerts, and at Home Depot.

(A special day makes more sense in Disneyland, where Peter Pan and Tinkerbell live, after all.)

But if that wasn’t enough gay zoo news, apparently a right-wing Polish politician is claiming his local zoo bought a “gay” elephant.

I don’t make this stuff up!

Michal Grzes, a counselor from the western city of Poznan, noted that the elephant, Ninio, prefers the company of other males, and challenged the zoo’s fiscal wisdom for acquiring him.

“We didn’t pay 37 million zlotys ($11 million U.S.) for the largest elephant house in Europe to have a gay elephant live there,” said Grzes, according to London’s Daily Mail. “We were supposed to have a herd,” Grzes continued, “but as Ninio prefers male friends over females, how will he produce offspring?” (With the help of a childless lesbian elephant, duh.)

Ninio, who is 10, has changed zoos three times in the past five years because of his aggressive behavior toward females, in contrast to his affectionate treatment of males. The head of the zoo contends that any conclusions about Ninio’s sexual orientation are premature because the elephant will not reach sexual maturity until age 14.

On his 14th birthday, the zoo plans to offer to take the elephant either dancing in a club or to a NASCAR race, and will wait to see which he chooses before trying to expand the herd.

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Way to Override, Vermont!

Vermont has become the fourth state to legalize gay marriage – and the first to do so with a legislature’s vote.

The Legislature voted Tuesday to override Gov. Jim Douglas’ veto of a bill allowing gays and lesbians to marry. The vote was 23-5 to override in the state Senate and 100-49 to override in the House. Under Vermont law, two-thirds of each chamber had to vote for override.

The vote came nine years after Vermont adopted its first-in-the-nation civil unions law.

It’s now the fourth state to permit same-sex marriage. Massachusetts, Connecticut and Iowa are the others. Their approval of gay marriage came from the courts.

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Iowa Makes Gay Marriage Look Normal

04iowaspanThis Associated Press photo by Steve Pope in the New York Times made me realize that Iowa is making gay marriage look so normal.

Maybe the country really is warming up to the idea of same-sex marriage, just not California style.

I love my home state, but rally and protest pictures taken of Prop. 8 celebrations, gatherings, and protests look much more flamboyant… we’re tattooed, pierced, androgynous, transgendered, butch, femme, in drag, wearing leathers, feathers, and sequins, and all-in-all more radical.

I’m not saying that’s a bad thing, but I’m sure a good part of the country watches us on the news and finds us terrifying.

Iowa looks ’bout as scary as a church social. I’d let these good folk indoctrinate my children.

Read the story “Iowa court voids gay marriage ban” in the New York Times.

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Same Sex Marriage A-Okay in Iowa!!!

This from the Associate Press just minutes ago:

DES MOINES, Iowa — Iowa Supreme Court says state’s same-sex marriage ban violates rights of gays and lesbians.

Hello? California? Are you listening?

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Ellen and Oprah Together on O Magazine Cover

Oprah Winfrey offered to share the cover of O magazine with Ellen DeGeneres, and DeGeneres — who’s been campaigning for the spot — has accepted.

Winfrey surprised DeGeneres with a video telephone call on Friday’s episode of “The Oprah Winfrey Show.” She told a shocked DeGeneres that she was “calling to officially invite you on the cover of O.”

DeGeneres, who’s been mounting a campaign for the cover during her “Ellen” talk show, told Winfrey: “I can’t believe you’re serious about this. I’m freaking out right now.”

Winfrey had gone solo on the cover of O magazine for nine years before sharing the spot with first lady Michelle Obama.

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Portia de Rossi Makes Fake Prop 8 PSA

Last night on ABC’s Jimmy Kimmel Live, Portia de Rossi offered up this spoof on a Prop H8 PSA:

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College Guys Launch California Domestic Partnership Move

I suspected this wasn’t too far off:

Ali Shams, a senior 22-year-old pre-law student at UC-San Diego, spent his Christmas break framing a constitutional amendment initiative to replace the word “marriage” with “domestic partnership” under state law. Now his project has been cleared by Secretary of State Debra Bowen to gather petition signatures for a potential statewide ballot. Shams’ proposed amendment would take the state out of the wedding business, making marriages a product of church-sanctioned ceremonies, and letting the state government grant domestic partnerships, to gay and straight couples alike. Shams and a friend, Kaelan Housewright, a 21-year-old senior at the California Institute of the Arts, are taking their movement to the internet. You can read more about it in the San Jose Mercury News.

BTW, here’s an essay on the same topic I wrote last October.

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Hey, What’s Your Sign?

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Well, there was plenty of media coverage of the State Supreme Court hearing. Ultimately no one knows what the judges will do, and they’ve got 90 days to do it.

The Advocate has this round-up story of how the California newspapers are reporting on the day’s events.

(Thanks to Steve Rhodes for the great photo on Flickr with a Creative Commons license, and thanks to the girl for a great sign.)

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Candlelight Rallies Wednesday Evening to Invalidate Prop. H8

Take part in one of the Eve Of Justice candlelight vigils /rallies which take will place around California this Wednesday evening, the night before the California Supreme Court hears arguments to overturn Proposition 8.

Click on the above link to find the time and location for rallies in your town.

On Thursday, organizers are hoping to rally 100,000 activists to watch the court proceedings on a Jumbotron to be set up in front of the Supreme Court in San Francisco at 350 McAllister Street. Marriage Equality is taking donations to help pay for the Jumbotron. The courtroom and the overflow areas are expected to be filled. This would allow people to gather at the courthouse and watch the proceedings. You can donate here.

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Mormons Love Porn

mormonunderwear… or at least that’s the way it looks.

A new national study based on data from a top-ten online adult entertainment provider reveals (by zip codes linked to credit card charges) that Utah has the highest per-capita consumption of online porn in the nation.

But it’s not just Utah. States that are generally more conservative and religious are also among the best consumers of online porn. This follows that long established trend: What people protest most loudly, they’re doing in private.

Box Turtle Bulletin gives a great summary of the report, complete with charts and graphs. Read it here.

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Prop. 8 Hearing: All The Details

Gird your loins. This is the week the California Supreme Court will hear the arguments for, and against, Proposition 8.

My how times flies. It seems like just yesterday we were protesting in the streets. Dust off those candles, girls – it’s time to do it again.

The state Supreme Court will hear arguments Thursday on the validity of Proposition 8, the ban on same-sex marriage that California voters approved in November.

The court said it would hold a three-hour hearing, from 9 a.m. to noon, at its chambers in San Francisco. The proceedings will also be televised statewide on the California Channel, the court said. A ruling is due within 90 days of the hearing.

The California Supreme Court will hold three hours of oral arguments from 9.am-noon Thursday on three lawsuits seeking to overturn Proposition 8, the ballot measure that amended the state constitution to reinstate the ban on same-sex marriage the court threw out last year.

Lawyers representing same-sex couples and a group of local governments led by the city of San Francisco will get 90 minutes to present their arguments. The lawyers are Shannon Minter, legal director of the National Center for Lesbian Rights; Chief Deputy City Attorney Therese Stewart and Michael Maroko, a partner of Los Angeles lawyer Gloria Allred.

The sponsors of Proposition 8 will have an hour. They are being represented by Pepperdine law school dean Kenneth Starr, the former independent counsel who investigated President Bill Clinton during the Monica Lewinsky scandal. California Attorney General Jerry Brown has taken the unusual step of declining to defend the initiative. Deputy Attorney General Christopher Krueger will have half an hour to explain the state’s position.

A record number of 62 friend-of-the-court briefs have been filed in the case, more than two-thirds of them in support of striking down the same-sex marriage ban. They are available for viewing here.

Same-sex marriage advocates are planning to hold candlelight vigils across California the night before the hearing and are encouraging supporters to rally outside the courthouse on Thursday.

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Proposition 8: It’s About Justice and Civil Rights

Robin Tyler and her wife, Diane Olson, were among the original plaintiffs in the lawsuit that eventually gave same-sex couples the right to marry in California – and was then overturned by the state referendum known as Proposition 8.

The legality of the proposition has been challenged and will be heard by California’s State Supreme Court on Thursday.

In an opinion piece in the SF Chronicle’s SFGate website, Tyler talks about the difference between emotion and reality. She says she and her wife will never say “Don’t Divorce Us” because this isn’t about them, or about unmarrying couples. It’s about not allowing 50 percent of a state’s population to discriminate against a minority group.

Read her piece here.

You can read more of Robin Tyler’s opinion writing for the Huffington Post here.

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