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Kink.com’s Tomcat is Hot and Handy

By the time I had heard of San Francisco’s Kink.com empire, they were already famous because their Fucking Machines had been featured on HBO’s show “Real Sex”. Word was definitely getting around, and I had to check them out.

Then at the end of 2006, Kink.com bought the old armory in SF, turning it into a a 200,000 square foot pleasure palace with offices and filming sets.

Some of the best stuff about Kink.com is the details: the “after glow” shots of the models and “Behind Kink” interviews.

I recently stumbled into this “Behind Kink,” featuring fuckingmachines.com’s director Tomcat giving a tour of all the new kinky machines to Kink.com’s CEO Peter Ackworth. I’m going to guess that Tomcat is the reason so much of the Kink.com material manages to be thoroughly pornographic without feeling especially misogynistic. Tomcat is genderqueer, smart, hot, and apparently very creative and handy with his hands. The whole scene is kinky, wild, and funny. A short documentary about fucking machines, if you will.

Warning: This is definitely x-rated material and not for the sexually squeamish. It’s also not for watching at work. That said, you can check out Tomcat’s tour here.

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Coyote Grace: It’s Trans Awareness Month

coyotegraceYesterday I received an email from Ingrid Elizabeth of the ever-so-lovely acoustic duo Coyote Grace. She wanted to remind all of us that November is Trans Awareness Month, and that she and Joe Stevens (the other half of the duo) will be performing on the Transgender Day of Remembrance at University of Nebraska – Omaha. They’ll appear with Namoli Brennet.

I consider myself particularly spoiled because Coyote Grace recently moved to my neck of the woods. They’re smart, charming, socially relevant, and best of all, dance-able. As they’re becoming more well known, they still favor us with small local shows.

With a biography that begins “Girl meets Girl. Girl becomes Boy. Girl and Boy become a band. Meet Coyote Grace.” You know you can expect something different. Their sound is a swingy blend of Americana roots music with jazz-baby overtones. Ingrid Elizabeth plays the upright bass (that’s a lovely sentence to say out loud, btw) and Joe Stevens plays the guitar. They both sing and write songs. You can sample their music here.

I recently had the opportunity to spend an hour or so locked up in a radio recording booth with these two, and I came away impressed with their warmth, humor, brains, musical ability, and – yes – grace. They’re hard-working musicians who are quickly establishing a place for themselves, having opened for the Indigo Girls, and toured with Melissa Ferrick

But they also impressed me as incredibly brave young souls; two people who have no inclination to shy away from questions about their early lesbian relationship and Joe’s transition from female to male. Indeed, they address it in song, and are as eager to share and educate as they are to entertain.

Here’s a video of Coyote Grace opening for Melissa Ferrick late last month in Milwaukee, singing one of their signature songs, “A Guy Named Joe,” about Joe’s transition.

Could there be a better pair to share the honor of GPG Centerfold during Trans Awareness Month?

(And with a special shoutout to the SF Bay Area: Coyote Grace will appear this Sunday, Nov. 9 at 7 p.m. at the ever-so-queer-friendly and decidedly down-scale Black Cat in Penngrove. I hope to see you there!)

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Transsexual Gene Link Identified

Australian researchers claim to have found a genetic link that predisposes individuals to male-to-female transsexualiam.

Personally, I hope we don’t spend so much time studying the possibility and probability of everone’s individual quirks to the extent that we take all the fun out of it. After all, that’s what a lifetime’s for, right? I don’t want to be trapped on a tour bus with everyone around me on a pre-scheduled ticket. I want surprises!

Nevertheless, here’s the story, courtesy of the BBC.

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